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OnDaFence 36M/44M
44267 posts
9/16/2017 7:47 pm

Last Read:
9/18/2017 3:09 pm

What's in a Name for You???



"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" is a popular reference to William Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet, in which Juliet seems to argue that it does not matter that Romeo is from her rival's house of Montague, that is, that he is named "Montague." The reference is often used to imply that the names of things do not affect what they really are.



Since the vast majority of us had absolutely NO INPUT as to what our names (etched in stone for the rest of our days) would be



If given the opportunity to change your name... What would it be?

I am partial to Vladimir........



and not because that world renown Vladimir is so sweet, innocent and desirable. I just like the way it rolls off my tongue.... Vvvllladimir.....

OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/16/2017 7:49 pm

You don't have to give your real name.....


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/16/2017 7:50 pm

think of it more as a "stage name"


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/16/2017 7:50 pm

or what would you really like to be called.....


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/16/2017 7:52 pm

Hmmm named after an 80's rocker or a 21st century oligarch???


Hungr4Yungr 75M
5766 posts
9/16/2017 9:06 pm

Can't think of any name I'd rather have. I have always been happy with who I am.


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/16/2017 9:52 pm

    Quoting Hungr4Yungr:
    Can't think of any name I'd rather have. I have always been happy with who I am.
That's reasonable... some are... but even a "stage name"?


bychance4709 61M

9/16/2017 9:53 pm

are you sure it isn't because of his shirtless vacation pics??


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/17/2017 1:36 am

    Quoting bychance4709:
    are you sure it isn't because of his shirtless vacation pics??
Ya know it could be....


jrodd 65M
4396 posts
9/17/2017 3:19 am

I was given my dads own name was even born on the same day as him but I am different ,so I am not my dad . Had birthdays together but I am gay hes not and didn't realize my differences created some disappointments. Would I have a different name? Dont care . Call me a name like an alien et so different that its out of this world ,that might be better


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/17/2017 7:43 am

    Quoting jrodd:
    I was given my dads own name was even born on the same day as him but I am different ,so I am not my dad . Had birthdays together but I am gay hes not and didn't realize my differences created some disappointments. Would I have a different name? Dont care . Call me a name like an alien et so different that its out of this world ,that might be better
I'd planned this as a fun game... looks like no one wants to play...


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/17/2017 6:01 pm

    Quoting woodcarver2:
    I've always been partial to the name "Jake"-- not so fond of "Jacob"-- but I do like "Jake".
Good name... thanks for playing along!.. Oh I've forgotten to tell you I am no longer a Gold member so I can't read your emails.


DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
946 posts
9/18/2017 6:16 am

True and wretched story. My father wanted my first and middle name to be...Geronimo Kochief. How sad is that, and it would set the premise for our adversarial and volatile relationship. My mother only got him away from that by telling him she wanted me named after him. Long story short, I researched several years for just the right name that I thought fit me, and as soon as I was able and didn't need permission anymore, I legally changed the whole damn thing!


OnDaFence 36M/44M

9/18/2017 3:09 pm

    Quoting DandR4hands4men:
    True and wretched story. My father wanted my first and middle name to be...Geronimo Kochief. How sad is that, and it would set the premise for our adversarial and volatile relationship. My mother only got him away from that by telling him she wanted me named after him. Long story short, I researched several years for just the right name that I thought fit me, and as soon as I was able and didn't need permission anymore, I legally changed the whole damn thing!
One of the few, the proud and daring! Congrats!